Dear Journal -
You know how they say that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas? Well, this piece of information is just too damn juicy to keep to myself! brace yourself journal! Do I have a story for you today!
It all started about 3 months ago on a dating website called Tagged. I had joined that site a few years back when I was not only newly single but also new to the world of online dating, back then when I joined, I met some really great people, two of which are until this very day, my good guy friends. One, I wrote about before http://jazzy-jazzysjournal.blogspot.com/2011/03/who-hell-is-adam.html
The other one, he and I are such good friends, that he once gave me something he wrote (he loves to write also) so that I could post on my blog http://jazzy-jazzysjournal.blogspot.com/2011/02/story-below-was-written-by-very-good.html%20.
Needless to say, although my experience then didn't lead me to finding love, I most certainly found sincere friendship.
This time around my experience has been totally different. Not only do I see the online dating thing in a completely different way, I also don't take offense to peoples comments or take things personal when someone is not interested in me. I don't have any sort of expectations when I meet someone or talk to them and I feel happy about having the opportunity to meet and talking to all sorts of interesting people. Me being online is more of a way for me to interact with the opposite sex in a safe environment where I have some fun and interesting conversations when I have a few free minutes as my schedule is so hectic and busy.
One day, I get an email from this good looking guy and I respond as I often do when I can. We start talking and the first thing I liked about him was that he was extremely respectful. He never once made any sexual reference or tried to lead our conversation in a way that would turn it into a conversation of a sexual nature, him and I just started talking about random things and had a great emailing experience. I could tell he was intelligent, funny and honest and just being himself. He wasn't pushy or trying too hard, he just simply took interest in talking to me and finding out without asking the usual questions, just who I was.
I have always had a yahoo account, but I never chat, I just don't! I don't have time to sit around and do so, but that evening I had some free time and when he asked me if I had a yahoo account I told him I didn't chat, but I would make the exception, that night I used my yahoo account for like the second time ever, I think I had used it once to talk to a real friend, one I know in person. I didn't even know how to add people to the account, he had to do it and then I accepted and we chatted for what felt like minutes, yet it was probably more like hours. I felt like I knew him for a really long time.
We continued to stay in touch off and on, I began to tell him about my intimate life and he began to tell me his, we became great friends. One day, after having video chatted with someone else via Facebook video chat (that was the first time I had done that also) I asked him if he would like to video chat with me. The whole time I had been talking to him, I never really thought of him in a romantic way, I really just saw him as a friend. The honest truth is that although I did find him attractive, I just didn't feel sexual chemistry when we spoke. Im VERY shallow! I have said this before, I find so many men attractive, but that doesn't mean I find them sexually attractive, I consider myself to be picky in the most annoying way! sometimes I think a guy is a total hottie yet I just won't feel it. Sometimes it is really frustrating.
He agreed to video chat and we set a date, I was really excited and had no expectations, at this point I saw him only as a platonic friend that I knew and was really looking forward to talking to him and being able to share with each other all about our new romantic interests and developments. We got on camera and it felt so weird, I felt like I had seen him before, like we were cool friends forever. And then I kept looking at him and thinking to myself, damn! he's sooooo cute! all of a sudden, the platonic feeling turned into sexual feeling, I began to see him in a sexually attractive way, I wanted to be able to kiss him.
After that day, he sent me a message and told me that he was going to Vegas and that he would love for me to accompany him, at first I thought he was full of it, it's my experience lately that men LOVE to talk! And to me, actions just speak louder then words. I told him that I could not because I could not afford it, he told me I didn't have to worry about a thing!
My first thought was wtf! no one ever gives me anything! I've known him for a few months now and I feel that I can trust him, maybe he isn't bullshitting. He is in the US Navy, he is living abroad and this is my chance to finally meet my wonderful new friend, so I agreed to meet him in Vegas.
I don't think I need to go into details about our passionate love making and how he made me feel! After all, it had been nearly 5 months since I had been with a man in an intimate situation. I loved the way he treated me like a lady, how he treated me with respect and when I walked into a room full of people everyone noticed. He is tall and built, has beautiful full lips and big colored eyes. He is funny and charming and polite and talks to strangers in a caring way, he has all sorts of stories and is fun to be around.
The next few hours were a big blur, we were in one of the casinos and I only remember us drinking beer and drinking and drinking and next thing I knew, I was in this little chapel saying I do with Elvis as my witness, when the man asked me if I took this man to be my husband! right there in the little chapel with Elvis Presley looking on, I took the sexy sailor as my lawful wedded husband! I was sooo proud to become a military wife! I am so proud of my sailor for defending our country, for standing up for the rest of us against the enemies, for putting his life on the line so that we can live freely. How could I not be trilled to finally have found a real man that isn't afraid to take care of me the way a woman deserves to be taken care of?
The next day I woke up and I couldn't believe what had happened. I had one of those little plastic rings that you get for two quarters in the vending machines, and a splitting headache, next to me sleeping like a king, was my sailor. I was lucky to have my phone still and to be able to post my new status on Facebook! I had become a military wife the night before and I wanted the whole world to know about it!
Journal, to end this entry I have a confession to make. I have been feeling a bit creative lately and felt that I needed to write something different, please note that some or all parts of this journal entry may be completely fabricated and only a figment of my active imagination.
Good Night!
You know how they say that what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas? Well, this piece of information is just too damn juicy to keep to myself! brace yourself journal! Do I have a story for you today!
It all started about 3 months ago on a dating website called Tagged. I had joined that site a few years back when I was not only newly single but also new to the world of online dating, back then when I joined, I met some really great people, two of which are until this very day, my good guy friends. One, I wrote about before http://jazzy-jazzysjournal.blogspot.com/2011/03/who-hell-is-adam.html
The other one, he and I are such good friends, that he once gave me something he wrote (he loves to write also) so that I could post on my blog http://jazzy-jazzysjournal.blogspot.com/2011/02/story-below-was-written-by-very-good.html%20.
Needless to say, although my experience then didn't lead me to finding love, I most certainly found sincere friendship.
This time around my experience has been totally different. Not only do I see the online dating thing in a completely different way, I also don't take offense to peoples comments or take things personal when someone is not interested in me. I don't have any sort of expectations when I meet someone or talk to them and I feel happy about having the opportunity to meet and talking to all sorts of interesting people. Me being online is more of a way for me to interact with the opposite sex in a safe environment where I have some fun and interesting conversations when I have a few free minutes as my schedule is so hectic and busy.
One day, I get an email from this good looking guy and I respond as I often do when I can. We start talking and the first thing I liked about him was that he was extremely respectful. He never once made any sexual reference or tried to lead our conversation in a way that would turn it into a conversation of a sexual nature, him and I just started talking about random things and had a great emailing experience. I could tell he was intelligent, funny and honest and just being himself. He wasn't pushy or trying too hard, he just simply took interest in talking to me and finding out without asking the usual questions, just who I was.
I have always had a yahoo account, but I never chat, I just don't! I don't have time to sit around and do so, but that evening I had some free time and when he asked me if I had a yahoo account I told him I didn't chat, but I would make the exception, that night I used my yahoo account for like the second time ever, I think I had used it once to talk to a real friend, one I know in person. I didn't even know how to add people to the account, he had to do it and then I accepted and we chatted for what felt like minutes, yet it was probably more like hours. I felt like I knew him for a really long time.
We continued to stay in touch off and on, I began to tell him about my intimate life and he began to tell me his, we became great friends. One day, after having video chatted with someone else via Facebook video chat (that was the first time I had done that also) I asked him if he would like to video chat with me. The whole time I had been talking to him, I never really thought of him in a romantic way, I really just saw him as a friend. The honest truth is that although I did find him attractive, I just didn't feel sexual chemistry when we spoke. Im VERY shallow! I have said this before, I find so many men attractive, but that doesn't mean I find them sexually attractive, I consider myself to be picky in the most annoying way! sometimes I think a guy is a total hottie yet I just won't feel it. Sometimes it is really frustrating.
He agreed to video chat and we set a date, I was really excited and had no expectations, at this point I saw him only as a platonic friend that I knew and was really looking forward to talking to him and being able to share with each other all about our new romantic interests and developments. We got on camera and it felt so weird, I felt like I had seen him before, like we were cool friends forever. And then I kept looking at him and thinking to myself, damn! he's sooooo cute! all of a sudden, the platonic feeling turned into sexual feeling, I began to see him in a sexually attractive way, I wanted to be able to kiss him.
After that day, he sent me a message and told me that he was going to Vegas and that he would love for me to accompany him, at first I thought he was full of it, it's my experience lately that men LOVE to talk! And to me, actions just speak louder then words. I told him that I could not because I could not afford it, he told me I didn't have to worry about a thing!
My first thought was wtf! no one ever gives me anything! I've known him for a few months now and I feel that I can trust him, maybe he isn't bullshitting. He is in the US Navy, he is living abroad and this is my chance to finally meet my wonderful new friend, so I agreed to meet him in Vegas.
I don't think I need to go into details about our passionate love making and how he made me feel! After all, it had been nearly 5 months since I had been with a man in an intimate situation. I loved the way he treated me like a lady, how he treated me with respect and when I walked into a room full of people everyone noticed. He is tall and built, has beautiful full lips and big colored eyes. He is funny and charming and polite and talks to strangers in a caring way, he has all sorts of stories and is fun to be around.
The next few hours were a big blur, we were in one of the casinos and I only remember us drinking beer and drinking and drinking and next thing I knew, I was in this little chapel saying I do with Elvis as my witness, when the man asked me if I took this man to be my husband! right there in the little chapel with Elvis Presley looking on, I took the sexy sailor as my lawful wedded husband! I was sooo proud to become a military wife! I am so proud of my sailor for defending our country, for standing up for the rest of us against the enemies, for putting his life on the line so that we can live freely. How could I not be trilled to finally have found a real man that isn't afraid to take care of me the way a woman deserves to be taken care of?
The next day I woke up and I couldn't believe what had happened. I had one of those little plastic rings that you get for two quarters in the vending machines, and a splitting headache, next to me sleeping like a king, was my sailor. I was lucky to have my phone still and to be able to post my new status on Facebook! I had become a military wife the night before and I wanted the whole world to know about it!
Journal, to end this entry I have a confession to make. I have been feeling a bit creative lately and felt that I needed to write something different, please note that some or all parts of this journal entry may be completely fabricated and only a figment of my active imagination.
Good Night!
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